I'm not worried about finding anyone or anything. I'm just venting about this growing ethos in my age group to at least talk in such a way that makes it seem like sex is the be all end all of existence. Didn't put out the first date? Drop em. Didn't last as long as you'd hope? Drop em. Isn't willing to attempt your strange kink that is borderline abusive? Drop em. Don't want sex until marriage? WHY WOULD YOU EVEN...Fragems wrote:Well the problem is the type of person you are looking for isn't the type that gets out alot or at least doesn't stand out much. Best bet would probably be online dating, but you'd have to be open with taking a chance and meeting some people as well as being prepared to break things off if you aren't into them. A lot of very vocal people may put an emphasis on sex, but there are a lot of people out there plus it's not like there is a deadline on finding someone you have plenty of time. As long as you keep yourself open you will find someone who is right for you eventually.
That being said I'm a 24 year who has his feet firmly on home base so I don't really have much experience in the relationship department. The fact that I'm a sucker who is way to loyal and that I'm more attracted to the idea of starting a family has given me good reason to avoid relationships. I'm also a romantic so I've kind of been stuck on one person for way to long. Really need to grow a pair and message her one day to get some closure, but I kind of let myself fade out of her life after my families last move some 7+ years ago. So I usually get as far as pulling up her Facebook once every 6 months or so before chickening out.
Its annoying. I feel like my views on things are much more frowned upon because I'm a guy and guys don't think like that, yadda yadda. Excuse me for wanting any kind of connection before I consider anal. (I've said that exact phrase twice now dealing with this type of advice.)
Online dating?
Good luck with that girl though, Fragems.

