How does this keep happening?

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hrmmm....

I don't think it's different because it's a girl. I do acknoweldge that our society has a huge double standard when it comes to the perception of an older person sleeping with a teen when it's an older woman sleeping with a teenage boy vs. the other way around. We all laughed at the South Park episode where Ike slept with his teacher. Niccceee. But realistically it's just as harmful. You just don't see it reported nearly as often when it's a boy with a female adult (I can't speak towards relative number of occurances).
Well here in South Florida I read more often in the paper of female teachers sleeping with male students and getting arrested. Though we have a large amount of male pedos too, they just don't hit the papers as often (I guess it's not as interesting after the 300th pedo this month). Some of the ones I remember were:

Woman in Greenacres would have meth parties will several boys and have orgies with them. Ages ranged from 13-16. I think she got like 10 years or something.

My Psychology teacher in high school got fired for sleeping with a teenager. He was 18 so it was legal, but she was still fired because of the action none the less. Also she ended up living with the boy and threw keg parties for students.

There was also another teacher having sex with a middle school boy. Arrested of course.

Something I've noticed, here the women get prosicuted much faster too... weird.

Again not to say women are the only here. I had 3 male teachers in high school "disapear" from the roster... one of them was having sex with girls in the janitor closet and selling acid and pot to his students. WIN!


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I go back to Moz's point though. It's not a matter of faith in parents, it's a matter of others being complacent when the parents cry no foul. I mean come on, I can KINDA understand a parent is just DUMB AS ROCKS and is oblivious to what their child is up to. But when time comes, and their kid gets ran over... don't sympathize for the parent... they're a dumb ass! They played a big role in the problem.

I'm tired of everyone expecting to not have to raise their children, and the rest of the country giving them more reasons to not even bother. Enough kids are raised by TV and are hardly handed due consequence when they mess up. I'm not saying they should be beat (though that is my personal opinion of action for extreme screw ups), but come on... send a kid to his room today to his computer, videogames, tv, cell phone, open window, and everything??? WHAT THE HELL IS THAT!

And it ain't like this is new.

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When I was in middle school their was this girl I knew. Kinda retarded in the head but she like vodka just as much as I... and my being a complete and utter loser I took whatever friend I could. So we shared booze and chatted. One day in Home economics (yes I took home ec, told you... loser!) we're just sitting there and she's chatting to her friend beside her about this "guy" she meet on the internet. Now this is waaaaaaaay back. I'm talking like pre-AOL boom. Something like 94' 95'.

You know, I'm just listening... she's sitting right there just blabbing it. And I guess you can call her a friend... kind of.

She goes on to say how this guy is soooo cool and he lives in Ohio and blah blah. We're in Connecticut. I'm like 12, my balls haven't even dropped. But it was OBVIOUS what was going on. The girl didn't even have tits for fuck sake!

Anyways the guy was talking about buying her a bus ticket to Ohio for the weekend and she was going out there in 2 weeks.

My eyes bulge out of my face and I lean over and I say something along the lines of:

me - "What the FUCK, are you crazy or something?? I don't need to be finding you in a ditch with a knife up your ass!"

her - "Shut up Dylan, you don't know what you're talking about."

me - "Fuck you I don't."

teacher - "Dylan, shut your mouth or you have detention."

me - "excuse me, but this girl is talking about running away with a fucking pedophile!"

teacher - "What DID I SAY!?"

me - "But..."

her - "Dylan, shut your fucking trap, don't ruin this for me." (she's speaking quietly)

me - "I will not. You have NO idea what the hell you're think about."

her - "Dylan, shut the fuck up!" And she STABS... STABS!!!! me in the back with a pen.

I dive out of my chair screaming like a stuck pig. "You fucking cunt, I hope you fucking rot in a swap you hilly billy reject cock sucking whore!"

teacher - "Dylan, go to the office!"

No one believed me when I explained WHY I was freaking out. WTF!???????

... and people wonder why I hate this world.

People are stupid, they should be shot... all of you. Yes you reading this. POW!




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to anyone wondering after story upon story how the hell I got into this situations and absurdly young ages. Come live my life and you'll see. Grow up poor on welfare in shitty parts of town, a broken suicidal family, and the state constantly threatening to seperate you from your family and throw you in a foster home. Tell me you wouldn't rage on some drugs!

But that's my biggest beef with all this. I grew up in the shittiest of American pit holes (scary part is the inner city isn't it...). I mean come on, my kind of people are the ones who end up in wheel chairs on the corner begging to buy their next bag of crack.

Shit, that's the story of my high school best friend Sean... missing a leg and got his own grandma hooked on crack. I meet the kids mom bowing for heroine...

And yet coming from this piss filled mess, I knew better! What the hell is wrong with these other morons!????

That's why i swear, the day I have kids, no matter how much money I have. I'm locking it all away, getting a crap job, and raising them in the ghetto. They're gonna get 3rd rate education, go to school with their classmates who sell drugs and carry guns, they're gonna be fed a diet of raw spaghetti and wear 3 dollar Puma's from "ROSS". And you know what... I bet you they have a better chance of being a physicist or doctor then your kid!
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I know what it is...

White people...

Die whitey.

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Well I'm glad this thread was relatively stable, until Duct entered. :lol:
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That's my job... I'm the kid who pees on the camp fire in the cub scouts.
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lordofduct wrote:I know what it is...

White people...

Die whitey.


heh... :)
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No, it's true. I blame the white man for everything that goes wrong in this country.

And for the record, there are some folks that notice the female pedos too. One of the sites I visit posts about them whenever a new one pops up. It's interesting comparing them to the males, because the males typically look shady anyway, while the females look...well, in some cases, they're actually pretty attractive. Not always...but often enough that it gets noticed.

I don't have a problem with an age difference. There was an 18 year difference between my grandparents. But I do have an issue with it happening when one person is under a certain age(personally, in terms of age, I think 20 is a better number). Hell, I was an idiot at 18. Ever few months or so, I reflect on where I was on an intellectual level just a year previous, and it's usually pretty shocking to me when I consider the things I've discovered about myself and the rest of the world.

And for the record...Lordofduct's kids will either be the greatest, or the most fucked up children anybody will ever meet. But I figure if there's only one thing you teach them, teach them to think things through and appreciate educating themselves. As long as they keep level heads and try to better themselves(not necessarily in a class system, but in terms of personal improvement), they should be fine.
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Ack, I'd be interested to find out how old your (I'm guessing) grandmother was when she married your grandfather. The interesting thing about the age difference is that as you get older the age difference matters less and less. If you hear about a 28 year old woman going out with a 38 year old guy you generally don't bat an eye. But keep the same difference and have it be a 19 year old girl with a 29 year old guy and people start to really wonder what's going on. And I use the example of the woman being younger because it's the common case due to a favorable biological imperitive from both sides.

Personally, I feel that kids are just as sexually charged as they have always been. The difference is that in the modern age they are finding it easier to act out on these feelings than in days gone by. I think technology plays a big role in obfuscating from parents what their kids are up to, but the onus is still on the parents to raise their kids properly.

On a somewhat related but mostly tangental note, there's a very interesting phenomenom that's been observed with female victims of abuse. They frequently will develop what has been dubbed the "little girl voice". Their vocal development freezes at the age that they were abused, and is most noticable when they were abused around 6-8 years of age. It's actually kind of creepy, since you have a 20 year old woman in front of you who sounds like she belongs on the playground with her Cabbage Patch Kids.
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He was her college art professor. :lol:
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MrPopo wrote:On a somewhat related but mostly tangental note, there's a very interesting phenomenom that's been observed with female victims of abuse. They frequently will develop what has been dubbed the "little girl voice". Their vocal development freezes at the age that they were abused, and is most noticable when they were abused around 6-8 years of age. It's actually kind of creepy, since you have a 20 year old woman in front of you who sounds like she belongs on the playground with her Cabbage Patch Kids.
That's interesting- some girls I know who were abused do that OR they reverse it so they make themselves sound older and hate having a high-pitched voice

wait, that's the kind of voice Britney Spears and other pop stars use... ugghh
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