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See, I didn't think that either Popo's line of argument or mine about the practical considerations of having to live in a governed society were really honestly addressed so much as dismissed at the moment of departure from the thread. Yeah, the previous posts referencing Seinfeld and the like are silly tangents, but I haven't seen a good answer to the question of why someone's personal religious beliefs about my individual soul should give them the power to create laws that discriminate against behavior that effects only me and like-minded people.

This was essentially question 3 in the OP, asking how "disapproval" mobilizes itself.

I said:
A vote is not as visceral as a beating, obviously, but they seem to be grounded in the same "disapproval" mindset, often justified through an interpretation of the Bible/biology that is anything but authoritative. "Disapproval" may not be the same as "hate" but, culturally and politically, they often function in the same way...
EDIT: Response to your new post...
mjmjr25 wrote:You state you don't see how there is a victim, I do.
You state it should be a secular issue, I don't. There are in fact, no secular issues, in the grand scheme.
You view it is a "civil rights issue", akin to being black, or old, or poor. I don't.

I've explained why I don't, repeatedly. Either i'm not a good rhetorician, or the audience isn't willing to look at the other side. In either case, I don't see much point in making the same post over and over.
1. On "victim" you said:
"If a young boy is taught that homosexuality is not a sin against God, then to me, that person is a victim of those who are influencing him. Just like the 8yo whom is molested by his uncle is a victim."
-But the state can't define someone as a "victim" becasue they are taught something out of line with a specific (contentious) religious theology. If this were the case, every good science teacher would be creating hundreds of "victims" by teaching evolution per state curriculum guidelines.

2. On "no secular issues in the grand scheme" - this isn't really a relevant argument in this discussion, since you are living in a secular world and have chosen to mobilize "disapproval" in some fashion within it. Religious people enter the secular realm by voting, firing/hiring, and doing many other things in public.

3. I still don't understand this at all. Can you define "civil rights" for me?

Giving up (even in part) becasue you "maybe haven't made your point well" isn't really a good way to leave a debate...it makes you look like you don't really have a leg to stand on...
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dsheinem wrote:See, I didn't think that either Popo's line of argument or mine about the practical considerations of having to live in a governed society were really honestly addressed so much as dismissed at the moment of departure from the thread. Yeah, the previous posts referencing Seinfeld and the like are silly tangents, but I haven't seen a good answer to the question of why someone's personal religious beliefs about my individual soul should give them the power to create laws that discriminate against behavior that effects only me and like-minded people.

This was essentially question 3 in the OP, asking how "disapproval" mobilizes itself.

I said:
A vote is not as visceral as a beating, obviously, but they seem to be grounded in the same "disapproval" mindset, often justified through an interpretation of the Bible/biology that is anything but authoritative. "Disapproval" may not be the same as "hate" but, culturally and politically, they often function in the same way...
EDIT: Response to your new post...
mjmjr25 wrote:You state you don't see how there is a victim, I do.
You state it should be a secular issue, I don't. There are in fact, no secular issues, in the grand scheme.
You view it is a "civil rights issue", akin to being black, or old, or poor. I don't.

I've explained why I don't, repeatedly. Either i'm not a good rhetorician, or the audience isn't willing to look at the other side. In either case, I don't see much point in making the same post over and over.
1. On "victim" you said:
"If a young boy is taught that homosexuality is not a sin against God, then to me, that person is a victim of those who are influencing him. Just like the 8yo whom is molested by his uncle is a victim."
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but what about the child molesting priests?? it's both homosexual and molestation, and the man preaches the word of god!! wtf
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optimusprimenumber, you aren't adding anything to this debate and you make those of us who are legitimately interested in mjmjr and co's answers look bad. I would hate to see this discussion get closed down over your inflammatory remarks.
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dsheinem wrote: 1. I haven't seen a good answer to the question of why someone's personal religious beliefs about my individual soul should give them the power to create laws that discriminate against behavior that effects only me and like-minded people.

2. But the state can't define someone as a "victim" becasue they are taught something out of line with a specific (contentious) religious theology. If this were the case, every good science teacher would be creating hundreds of "victims" by teaching evolution per state curriculum guidelines.

3. On "no secular issues in the grand scheme" - this isn't really a relevant argument in this discussion, since you are living in a secular world and have chosen to mobilize "disapproval" in some fashion within it. Religious people enter the secular realm by voting, firing/hiring, and doing many other things in public.

4. I still don't understand this at all. Can you define "civil rights" for me?

5. Giving up (even in part) becasue you "maybe haven't made your point well" isn't really a good way to leave a debate...it makes you look like you don't really have a leg to stand on...
Again, I can't multi-quote, so i've numbered.

1. I care about your soul David, I care about all souls, this covers why I care. I'm not sure about the use of the word "power" or "discrimination". Who is being discriminated against? This is what I keep saying, but you say you don't have a good answer. The answer is the answer, you may not like it, but it is the answer. I believe to commit a homosexual act is to commit a sin against God. I believe to yell in anger at my wife is a sin against God. I believe to punch someone who cuts me off in traffic is a sin against God. Sins against God being defined as behaviors that we (consenting adherents and partners in the New Covenant) understand to be immoral and displeasing to God.

I would not support anything in this realm (secular, as you prefer) that makes them appear any less than what they are, displeasing to God. Passing laws in this realm (state / government / secular - whatever you prefer) that displease God are something it is my duty and my want to speak about. When speaking to those who don't see this as a blink of a realm, it is a tough thing to do, and people say things like "I haven't seen a good answer yet", when maybe what they might say is, "I don't like your answer" or maybe, "I just don't understand your answer."

2. Well, they are, granted i'm making an assumption of your understanding of the word "evolution". There is certainly adaptation, extinction, and natural selection in some regard, but any curriculum suggesting we evolve from monkeys is dangerous and I of course dispute and would speak out against it. Again, your statement of "good science teacher" is opinion, cleverly thrown in as fact, as you are prone to do.

3. It is the only argument in the discussion. We should always be making decisions with full understanding of how fleeting this world is. It is a tough thing to do, so many temptations: liquor, easy / attractive women, violent video games, perversion, gambling, pride, lust, homosexuality, earthly treasures, etc.

4. Probably not in an acceptable fashion to you. When I use the term, I use it in the understanding of things all humans should be allowed to do, its not a term I think i've ever used unless it was already being used, and then I use it in that context. I don't view them in the light as rights as you do, again, because all I do and am allowed to do is at the Grace of God and at His will.

5. That's your opinion. It's wrong, but it's yours. When we risk alienating and driving away those who may otherwise embrace Him, it is irresponsible to continue the track. DinnerX and I see people putting Assman plates, among other posts, and we have to be responsible about our participation in the thread.

At the end of this topic, if iv'e cemented a perception that Christians hate homosexuals, then iv'e done a terrible thing. If one person has left this debate thinking that Christians are intolerant of any peoples, we have done a terrible thing. We are intolerant of sin and it is our hope to explain that we all sin, but it should be avoided through faith, education and prayer.

Your comment, "...leg to stand on" That's the sin of pride, Dave, the need to make the comment you made - we both explained why we were leaving, but the passive-aggressive comment was an inaccurate victory dance.

Pride. I'm guilty of that one myself...often.
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sabrage wrote:optimusprimenumber, you aren't adding anything to this debate and you make those of us who are legitimately interested in mjmjr and co's answers look bad. I would hate to see this discussion get closed down over your inflammatory remarks.
..sigh.. if homosexuality is wrong in the bible, and christians believe that is so, then i pose the question: what of the child molesting priests?

it's far from inflammatory, it's a question about absurd hypocritical human behavior, i think it's rather on point.. where does that fit in their views? i can't reiterate it enough ways - but i'm asking if men who teach the word of the bible are both homosexual AND molesters, how do the devout reconcile that?
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optmusprimenumber wrote:
sabrage wrote:optimusprimenumber, you aren't adding anything to this debate and you make those of us who are legitimately interested in mjmjr and co's answers look bad. I would hate to see this discussion get closed down over your inflammatory remarks.
..sigh.. if homosexuality is wrong in the bible, and christians believe that is so, then i pose the question: what of the child molesting priests?

it's far from inflammatory, it's a question about absurd hypocritical human behavior, i think it's rather on point.. where does that fit in their views? i can't reiterate it enough ways - but i'm asking if men who teach the word of the bible are both homosexual AND molesters, how do the devout reconcile that?
We don't. They aren't fit to preach.
prfsnl_gmr wrote:There is nothing feigned about it. What I wrote is a display of actual moral superiority.
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BoringSupreez wrote:
optmusprimenumber wrote:
sabrage wrote:optimusprimenumber, you aren't adding anything to this debate and you make those of us who are legitimately interested in mjmjr and co's answers look bad. I would hate to see this discussion get closed down over your inflammatory remarks.
..sigh.. if homosexuality is wrong in the bible, and christians believe that is so, then i pose the question: what of the child molesting priests?

it's far from inflammatory, it's a question about absurd hypocritical human behavior, i think it's rather on point.. where does that fit in their views? i can't reiterate it enough ways - but i'm asking if men who teach the word of the bible are both homosexual AND molesters, how do the devout reconcile that?
We don't. They aren't fit to preach.
Exactly, that behavior is not representative of Christianity as a whole (nor are the Christians in this thread). Your straw men do not further this discussion.
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optmusprimenumber wrote:
sabrage wrote:optimusprimenumber, you aren't adding anything to this debate and you make those of us who are legitimately interested in mjmjr and co's answers look bad. I would hate to see this discussion get closed down over your inflammatory remarks.
..sigh.. if homosexuality is wrong in the bible, and christians believe that is so, then i pose the question: what of the child molesting priests?

it's far from inflammatory, it's a question about absurd hypocritical human behavior, i think it's rather on point.. where does that fit in their views? i can't reiterate it enough ways - but i'm asking if men who teach the word of the bible are both homosexual AND molesters, how do the devout reconcile that?
Most pedophiles aren't gay though, sure there are priests that are engaging in homosex behavior but that doesn't mean they are gay. And it's off topic.
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mjmjr25 wrote:
dsheinem wrote: 1. I haven't seen a good answer to the question of why someone's personal religious beliefs about my individual soul should give them the power to create laws that discriminate against behavior that effects only me and like-minded people.

2. But the state can't define someone as a "victim" becasue they are taught something out of line with a specific (contentious) religious theology. If this were the case, every good science teacher would be creating hundreds of "victims" by teaching evolution per state curriculum guidelines.

3. On "no secular issues in the grand scheme" - this isn't really a relevant argument in this discussion, since you are living in a secular world and have chosen to mobilize "disapproval" in some fashion within it. Religious people enter the secular realm by voting, firing/hiring, and doing many other things in public.

4. I still don't understand this at all. Can you define "civil rights" for me?

5. Giving up (even in part) becasue you "maybe haven't made your point well" isn't really a good way to leave a debate...it makes you look like you don't really have a leg to stand on...
Again, I can't multi-quote, so i've numbered.

1. I care about your soul David, I care about all souls, this covers why I care. I'm not sure about the use of the word "power" or "discrimination". Who is being discriminated against? This is what I keep saying, but you say you don't have a good answer. The answer is the answer, you may not like it, but it is the answer. I believe to commit a homosexual act is to commit a sin against God. I believe to yell in anger at my wife is a sin against God. I believe to punch someone who cuts me off in traffic is a sin against God. Sins against God being defined as behaviors that we (consenting adherents and partners in the New Covenant) understand to be immoral and displeasing to God.

I would not support anything in this realm (secular, as you prefer) that makes them appear any less than what they are, displeasing to God. Passing laws in this realm (state / government / secular - whatever you prefer) that displease God are something it is my duty and my want to speak about. When speaking to those who don't see this as a blink of a realm, it is a tough thing to do, and people say things like "I haven't seen a good answer yet", when maybe what they might say is, "I don't like your answer" or maybe, "I just don't understand your answer."

2. Well, they are, granted i'm making an assumption of your understanding of the word "evolution". There is certainly adaptation, extinction, and natural selection in some regard, but any curriculum suggesting we evolve from monkeys is dangerous and I of course dispute and would speak out against it. Again, your statement of "good science teacher" is opinion, cleverly thrown in as fact, as you are prone to do.

3. It is the only argument in the discussion. We should always be making decisions with full understanding of how fleeting this world is. It is a tough thing to do, so many temptations: liquor, easy / attractive women, violent video games, perversion, gambling, pride, lust, homosexuality, earthly treasures, etc.

4. Probably not in an acceptable fashion to you. When I use the term, I use it in the understanding of things all humans should be allowed to do, its not a term I think i've ever used unless it was already being used, and then I use it in that context. I don't view them in the light as rights as you do, again, because all I do and am allowed to do is at the Grace of God and at His will.

5. That's your opinion. It's wrong, but it's yours. When we risk alienating and driving away those who may otherwise embrace Him, it is irresponsible to continue the track. DinnerX and I see people putting Assman plates, among other posts, and we have to be responsible about our participation in the thread.

At the end of this topic, if iv'e cemented a perception that Christians hate homosexuals, then iv'e done a terrible thing. If one person has left this debate thinking that Christians are intolerant of any peoples, we have done a terrible thing. We are intolerant of sin and it is our hope to explain that we all sin, but it should be avoided through faith, education and prayer.

Your comment, "...leg to stand on" That's the sin of pride, Dave, the need to make the comment you made - we both explained why we were leaving, but the passive-aggressive comment was an inaccurate victory dance.

Pride. I'm guilty of that one myself...often.
I actually think I kind of understand your argument better now. Is this a fair assessment?

1. You think that you can suggest that your religious views should be the governing laws of the land because you believe they are what is best for everyone, even if some refuse to see that.

2. You think any direct/indirect "teaching" or "acknowledgement" by an institution that is not in line with Biblical principles creates a "victim" (this is closely related to #1).

3. You think that secular law, whenever possible, should be reflective of your view of an accounting in the afterlife. (again, pretty much #1)

4. All "rights" are granted by God, so distinctions such as "legal," "civil," or "human" don't matter.

5. You left the debate (at least for a bit) becasue you felt that your point of view was being twisted and lampooned with derisive and detracting posts.

All that pretty much accurate?

oh, and quickly on your comments about my word choice:

-A "good science teacher" is defined as one who teaches that which counts as "good science," which currently includes evolution from primates (and there are tomes of scientific data support this). In the future maybe this will change, but the definition of a "good science teacher" will also be reflective of that.

-I said it makes it look like you don't have a leg to stand on, not specifically that you don't. It was meant to encourage you to enter the fray again (which you did), not dismiss your position entirely. It was a call for clarification, not a boast of victory.
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BoringSupreez wrote:
optmusprimenumber wrote:
sabrage wrote:optimusprimenumber, you aren't adding anything to this debate and you make those of us who are legitimately interested in mjmjr and co's answers look bad. I would hate to see this discussion get closed down over your inflammatory remarks.
..sigh.. if homosexuality is wrong in the bible, and christians believe that is so, then i pose the question: what of the child molesting priests?

it's far from inflammatory, it's a question about absurd hypocritical human behavior, i think it's rather on point.. where does that fit in their views? i can't reiterate it enough ways - but i'm asking if men who teach the word of the bible are both homosexual AND molesters, how do the devout reconcile that?
We don't. They aren't fit to preach.
but you just write them off? from what i understand about the bible, those priests have been touched by evil yet are simultaneously preaching the bible. being deemed not fit to preach by their followers seems like the easy way out. im not trying to stir up shit, but the whole concept fucks with my head and while both homosexuality and religious views about homosexuality have been touched on here this seems like the place to ask.
flex wood wrote: Most pedophiles aren't gay though, sure there are priests that are engaging in homosex behavior but that doesn't mean they are gay. And it's off topic.
i dunno man, then "laying with a man" mustn't actually be referring to homosexuality :?

and if we've been talking about reasons to disapprove of homosexuality and how compelled everyone is to feel that way (or to not feel that way) then i don't think i've strayed very far off topic

from page 1 - the author states:
dsheinem wrote:...I tried to set it up as a welcoming chance for honest dialogue, as I am genuinely interested in how one substantiates and/or exercises "disapproval".
seriously. i have questions too :)

(is my avatar too menacing lol)
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