Random Thoughts Thread

Talk about just about anything else that is non-gaming here, but keep it clean
User avatar
BoneSnapDeez
Next-Gen
Posts: 20148
Joined: Mon May 02, 2011 1:08 pm
Location: Maine

Re: Random Thoughts Thread

Post by BoneSnapDeez »

ZeroAX wrote:
mjmjr25 wrote: There is a double standard on this type of stuff. When "conservative" social opinions / beliefs are espoused; they're seen as "flipping out" or "out of touch" or "bigoted". Each social behavior has numerous viewpoints and intolerance is on all sides.
If someone says he wants to get married and people start telling him "omg don't, marriage is stupid" THEN they can complain about double standards. I repeat I'm an exclusive relationship guy, but it's up to others to chose what they want.
Pretty much this, Inazuma notwithstanding. :lol:

Condemning and/or obsessing over the relationship/sexual preferences of other private individuals is absurd.
AppleQueso

Re: Random Thoughts Thread

Post by AppleQueso »

Passive-aggressively insisting that those in polyamorous or open relationships only have said relationships because they aren't "pleasing their woman enough" and implying that it's inherently dysfunctional and a symptom of a poor relationship all around isn't exactly what I'd call being tolerant of someone's lifestyle choice.
User avatar
Erik_Twice
Next-Gen
Posts: 6251
Joined: Fri Mar 27, 2009 10:22 am
Location: Madrid, Spain

Re: Random Thoughts Thread

Post by Erik_Twice »

mjmjr25 wrote: Intolerance toward people because of their lifestyle / race / creed / orientation, etc - that is bigotry. Do you know the words you so loosely use? The 8-ball says, "not today".
You mean like this?
You people are nuts and some of you have zero clue what commitment is.
Not my fault if your woman needs to go other places to get pleasured.
So how many of you guys are getting extra pussy? Or is it just your women that gets to fuck around?

Learn to please your lady and she will never want to stray.
I'd be shocked if any of these guys in the past few pages get any at all.
Yeah, that's intolerance and bigotry. And would also fall under "being a huge dick".
Looking for a cool game? Find it in my blog!
Latest post: Often, games must be difficult
http://eriktwice.com/
User avatar
Jmustang1968
Next-Gen
Posts: 6530
Joined: Fri Mar 11, 2011 6:51 pm
Location: Houston, TX

Re: Random Thoughts Thread

Post by Jmustang1968 »

Ehh the first few posts on the subject from prephary and catnip were somewhat similar and sparked some of the response:

Believe it or not you hit the nail on the head on where so many relationship problems comes from. Monogamy I realized causes so many problems, we say we love each other but then treat each other like property

"how can I be with you after you had another penis/vagina touch you."

I agree some of the responses are overly harsh. I think Hobie and I disagreed in a way that was still respectful...
User avatar
Erik_Twice
Next-Gen
Posts: 6251
Joined: Fri Mar 27, 2009 10:22 am
Location: Madrid, Spain

Re: Random Thoughts Thread

Post by Erik_Twice »

Jmustang1968 wrote:I agree some of the responses are overly harsh. I think Hobie and I disagreed in a way that was still respectful...
No worries, I thought that was fine. :)
Looking for a cool game? Find it in my blog!
Latest post: Often, games must be difficult
http://eriktwice.com/
Forlorn Drifter
Next-Gen
Posts: 5166
Joined: Sun Jan 15, 2012 2:02 pm
Location: Central Texas

Re: Random Thoughts Thread

Post by Forlorn Drifter »

Hobie-wan wrote:
Forlorn Drifter wrote:And I have backwards views on relationships... :roll:
No, you have basically no experience with relationships. Pephary is just following a different-than-most style relationship. I wouldn't choose to do that myself, but hey, if everyone involved in it is happy and nobody is getting hurt, then more power to them.
Thus my point. Its a different opinion and view, so not inherently wrong. So, I'm not wrong either.

I admit I don't have experience, sure. But I've watched enough over the years to know what I'm talking about. I've seen at least 10 divorces around me, watch tons of friends' relationships go bad, listen to my cousin lament over how bad his relationship with his wife is, and watch all kinds of people go around screwing everything with a heart beat with no thought to emotion. Its all bullshit.
ninjainspandex wrote:Maybe I'm just a pervert
PSN: Green-Whiskey
Owned Consoles: GameCube, N64, PS3, PS4, GBASP
User avatar
pepharytheworm
Next-Gen
Posts: 2853
Joined: Fri Mar 20, 2009 4:14 pm
Location: Portland, Oregon

Re: Random Thoughts Thread

Post by pepharytheworm »

Luke wrote:
ZeroAX wrote:
Luke wrote:You people are nuts and some of you have zero clue what commitment is. Commitment is a pretty big part of the equation of love.

I mean do what you want, but it's called cheating for a reason. If you're cool with your counterpart fucking the brains out of someone else, you should probably watch it as it takes place.
And people who attack people in polyamorous or open relationships are usually insecure about their own choices but are too afraid to even admit it to themselves.
So if your gf or wife came home and told you, "Christ. Just had the best sex ever. I mean, he not only blew my mind, he showed me things you couldn't even think of. His dick is perfect, his jizz is still dripping down my leg, and I can't wait to fuck him again all day tomorrow. I wish you could fuck me like that", that wouldn't bother you? Because that's probably what they're thinking.

Not my fault if your woman needs to go other places to get pleasured.
I will answer. First you must understand I separate sex and love. I love my partner even if we never had sex. Sex can be used as an expression of love but is not love itself. I am independently happy, or at least still workng at it, I don't need someone else to love myself. I am with the person I love because I want to show her my love and affection. Love is not expecting something in return.

If she did say what you said, which would be stated less crude, I would ask her what he did so I can learn how to please her better. I mean I am a musician and I know there are better ones out there. Why should I get offended if she tells me she saw an awesome musician? I am not that insecure, I don't need lies and illusions to be happy. I guarantee plenty of people out there could please her more than I sexually and plenty could please me better to. Being poly is not about sleeping around and having a bunch of sex.
Where's my chippy? There's my chippy.
AppleQueso

Re: Random Thoughts Thread

Post by AppleQueso »

Forlorn Drifter wrote: I admit I don't have experience, sure. But I've watched enough over the years to know what I'm talking about.
I mean that's pretty much the same thing anyways.
User avatar
RCBH928
Next-Gen
Posts: 6082
Joined: Wed Apr 02, 2008 6:40 am

Re: Random Thoughts Thread

Post by RCBH928 »

I checked BOX price plans and I was surprised that their free offer was 10GB and up to 250mb size limit per file.

With so much generosity , how many people really out there need more than that? I know they probably are targeting businesses but they are losing a lot on the consumer part. Compare that to the embarrassing 1GB storage for Evernote which you have to pay for $45 yearly.

I am not complaining, I am afraid such great service might shut down to bad business decisions
User avatar
Ziggy
Moderator
Posts: 14913
Joined: Mon Jun 09, 2008 5:12 pm
Location: NY

Re: Random Thoughts Thread

Post by Ziggy »

So a few pages back I was talking about possibly getting a new car at the end of the year and gas millage. This past week, I finally set out to calculate how many MPG I'm getting in my car. Now that I'm doing ~70 miles each day instead of ~20, it matter so much more.

This past week I drove 380.7 miles and used 13.285 gallons of gas. That comes out to be 28.65 MPG.

Let's step back and think about how ridiculous that actually is. I'm driving a 99 Camry (2.2L 4-cylinder) that's rated, brand new, for 20 city / 28 highway (combined 23). One would assume, since the car is 15 years old, that I wouldn't be getting the MPG it would get when it was brand new. I'm actually getting slightly over the rated 28 highway, and I didn't even have ideal conditions. I had a slow leak in one tire for the entire week, so for some of my travels one tire had low pressure. Also, you're suppose to get the best gas millage at something like 55-65 MPH. Well, a good stretch each way each day was at 75-85 MPH (where the RPMs are higher, which means more gas is being used).

Now something like 99% of my commute to work is all highway. It's less than a half of mile to get out of my neighborhood and it's all highway from there. It's about ~5 miles off the last parkway to my job. But yeah, it's almost all highway. So I understand what that means. But, most days on my way home it's stop and go for 5-10 exits on the LIE.

So I figured this, with everything else stated above, would mean that I wouldn't be getting near the 28 MPG rating. I was very surprised with this number, ever more so since I could possibly increase it. Which just boggles my mind... a car getting better MPG than it's rated for.

I do keep up with maintenance on it. Before this past week, I actually changed the fuel filter (it was probably never changed in the life of the car) so that might have increased my MPG.

So getting a new car, if I can get the one I want, would only be saving me something like $50/mo in gas. I say "only" because I predicted getting less MPG in the car I have now and saving more like $100/mo with the new car. But still, an extra $50/mo would be nice if I have a car payment again.



On another note... my check engine light came on. :(

My brother has an OBD II scanner so I pulled the codes. Turns out it's the damn charcoal fuel canister, which has a TSB (I had it go on my 00 Corolla when I had it). It's not extremely difficult to swap out, but the stupid thing costs about $325. Shit. Now that my brother works in a shop, I'm gonna have him see if he can get it cheaper from one of their suppliers.

But, at least it's nothing that'll decrease MPG or be dangerous to drive. It's mostly just an emissions thing. My inspection is up in August, I'll just have to be sure to do it by then.
Post Reply