What Made you Smile/What Ticked you off Today?

[harper]

You guys are missing the point. She says she's going to go do some shit like dye her hair, and she's literally gone all fucking day. She's still not back yet, does it really take 12 hours to dye someone's hair? And this shit happens all the time, she's never here and she fucking lives with me. If you guys want to think it's because I'm an asshole then go ahead, but I don't treat her like shit. I just get pissed because she spends all of her free time elsewhere. Kinda makes me feel like this relationship is bullshit. But thanks to my retarded insecurities/personal problems I feel like I can't do a damn thing about it.

[elmagicochrisg]

Oh summer... Why can't you be less humid?

Where I live, summer's already over. And it never even started...

How warm did it get?

Mean temperature in july and august was no more than 18°C.

Most days were like this:



Hence the very meager flea market results in 2012...

[D.D.D.]

You guys are missing the point. She says she's going to go do some shit like dye her hair, and she's literally gone all fucking day. She's still not back yet, does it really take 12 hours to dye someone's hair? And this shit happens all the time, she's never here and she fucking lives with me. If you guys want to think it's because I'm an asshole then go ahead, but I don't treat her like shit. I just get pissed because she spends all of her free time elsewhere. Kinda makes me feel like this relationship is bullshit. But thanks to my retarded insecurities/personal problems I feel like I can't do a damn thing about it.

Nah~ Never said you treat her "like shit". I just agreed that it may not be the best way to communicate with someone if you're not trying to make a problem worse. Address the issues you have directly instead of just being angry at her about them. If you have, then I dunno~ Try again and again and if she doesn't realize that it's something that sucks for you and she doesn't care about it, might be time to move on.
I do feel ya, sometimes wifey gets her hair dyed and it takes hours, like 4~5 hours because the dye doesn't take quickly. Then again we usually go out to eat before or after and I bring a portable with me when she's getting her hair done.

Mean temperature in july and august was no more than 18°C.

Most days were like this:



Hence the very meager flea market results in 2012...

Wow~ Make me think you're gonna have a very white winter.

[foxhound1022]

You guys are missing the point. She says she's going to go do some shit like dye her hair, and she's literally gone all fucking day. She's still not back yet, does it really take 12 hours to dye someone's hair? And this shit happens all the time, she's never here and she fucking lives with me. If you guys want to think it's because I'm an asshole then go ahead, but I don't treat her like shit. I just get pissed because she spends all of her free time elsewhere. Kinda makes me feel like this relationship is bullshit. But thanks to my retarded insecurities/personal problems I feel like I can't do a damn thing about it.

IDK, maybe it's time to sit her down and have a serious conversation about where you and her stand on the relationship thing.

If she blows you off, gets irritated/upset, or is simply apathetic to your plea, then it usually spells trouble.

I hate to tell ya, girl; doesn't sound good.

[elmagicochrisg]

At least she should be flattered he wants to spend more time with her.

That's not a bad thing. Right?...

Wow~ Make me think you're gonna have a very white winter.

Nope. Just wet. As usual... lol

[Forlorn Drifter]

Smile: Our team curbstomped in football tonight, 68-7.

Frown: The end of football games always seems bittersweet to me. For me, its generally the end of the night. And that's only ten o'clock. I'm a night owl, so from 7:30 through 6 in the morning, I'm wired. Most people just go home. Sometimes a Whataburger run. My buddy claims its because I don't have "someone to share the night with". Just roll my eyes and groan, like I do every time he says he's going to "hook me up".

[cookie monster]

Harper you are a very sweet girl and your gf is being a selfish bitch cause she doesn't take your feelings into consideration when you ask her to spend time with you. From what i understand you posting she seems like she is just using you for a place to stay. You deserve better than that kinda treatment. I have been in the same type of relationship i tried talking to the guy and i got the speil of i love you i would never cheat on you blah blah bullshit. I ended up finding out later that my bf had cheated. I ended up tracking him down and we got in to a fight that resulted in the neighbors watching all 5'2 of me beat his 6'1 ass to be fair though he hit me first, It took 2 guys to get me off him. I informed him his shit would be on the front lawn if it was still there the next day i would set it on fire. you have freinds here if you need them.

[Michi]

....you have freinds here if you need them.

That's right, harper. You can always release some steam here.

My advise would be to sit down and try talking to your girlfriend and remember that if worse comes to worse.....cookie will be willing to go to your house and burn all her shit for you.

[elmagicochrisg]

....you have freinds here if you need them.

That's right, harper. You can always release some steam here.

My advise would be to sit down and try talking to your girlfriend and remember that if worse comes to worse.....Monster will be willing to go to your house and burn all her shit for you.

FTFY

[Luke]

The Internet. Where people think they can give total strangers sound advice.

Anyways, this is how harper's exchange sounded to me from how she explained it.

Harper's gf: I'm going to get my hair dyed tomorrow.

Harper: Fucking great! Leave the house like you always fucking do!

gf: Christ, I won't go if you don't want me to, I just want some time with my family.

Harper: You do whatever the fuck you want, I'm going to sleep.

Sunset, sunrise.


Harper: The fuck are you doing?

gf: getting my hair dyed. You flipped a bit last night.

Harper: Oh Great, fucking great. You're never in the fucking house.

gf: Isn't it obvious why? *slams door*