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Ack wrote:...if same-sex marriage were to be legalized and actually led to an improvement of the divorce rate, could this not be seen as a victory?
From a Christian perspective (aside from a minority of Christian groups who do not hold to traditional Christian views on things, of course).... no, it would not be seen as a victory. Same-sex marriage is not recognized as marriage Biblically, so it wouldn't matter.

I mean, if we take a moment to not examine homosexuality as a sin but instead used the occasion to bolster the idea of marriage based on mutual love and understanding and could then turn that into a means by which marriage was taken more seriously and thereby strengthened, would this not mean a victory in some sense for the institution as a whole?
Same answer as above. Homosexual acts is clearly defined as sinful in the Bible, so it is not possible do divorce the two things.

Anyway, Christian marriage is not "based on mutual love and understanding." That is a the current western view of it in society. Christian marriage is a covenant with God between a man and a woman. Hopefully mutual love and understanding are part of that!

I realize this is a tougher question to consider, as it requires the allowance of a supposed sin (to placate both sides I said supposed), and sins are weighted equally...but if it bolsters a damaged institution, then could it in some manner be considered a good thing, or at least a necessary evil?
Not a tough question to consider, because, for a Christian (as I loosely defined above), it would not even be considered. There really is no compromise here.

I'm not sure why the idea that all sins are weighted equally is so popular. Murder has far greater consequences than stealing a candy bar from a store, for example. Yes, sin is sin and all have the same punishment, and all are forgivable, but there is more to it than that.
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Ok, but then that would mean government still has nothing to do with your definition of marriage, as it is not up to the government to decide your relationship with God. If that is the case, then is the idea of same-sex civil unions acceptable, as it comes strictly from government and does not necessarily have the same religious significance as a marriage?
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mjmjr25 wrote: @Dsh, so now, per your words, "Focus on the Family" and the AFA are mainstream. This is contradictory to the way you've been portraying them. Either they are radical fringe elemets or they are the mainstream thought? You'd have to give me a quote from Dobson or Warren to argue against, it would be irresponsible to say most Christians, or myself, agree or disagree with such a general concern of yours. But before we even do that...its futile. You may find a hateful comment or a misguided comment, you may find dozens of them. They are men who may or may not be speaking in and through Christ - only God knows for sure. So finding a poor stance or unfortunate comment of theirs does nothing to the whole of Christianity. You seem to want to throw out the baby with the bathwater here. I don't think what you are looking for can be appeased in this instance. You want to wholly condemn something and lump it in with racism, et al.

-I think AFA, Focus on the Family, The Catholic League, etc. are representations of mainstream Christianity in the USA becasue their programming is on almost every Christian radio station, their materials are found in almost every church library, and their public events are inclusive of a wide swath of Christian denominations. A quick visit to their websites will give you all the evidence you need that they actively and aggressively promote anti-gay rights agendas (often in language echoing pro-racial segregation rhetoric). I never said those groups were fringe, I did say they were vocal. Fringe groups would be stuff like Westboro Baptist and their ilk, who are both fringe and vocal. No one likes them, of course.
You state lusting for children is clearly a sin. Yet lusting for a member of the same sex is not? There are more references to homosexual acts and perversion than pedophilia. So why do you so easily say one is a sin and one is not? Likely, because you find pedophilia abhorrent - that isn't fair though, you just changed the criteria. If it suits your belief system, then you are now willing to accept that is a sin. If it doesn't, then you continue to argue against it?
I frankly don't give a shit if anything is classified as a sin by one faith or another or not. I do care that pedophilia is demonstrably harmful to the physical, emotional, and mental well being of an individual and thus is rightly classified as a crime and not condoned. The same is not true for homosexuality. At best you can argue that it is spiritually harmful based on religious views of it as a temptation, but we've already covered why legislating temptations is a fool's errand unless you want to live in a theist state.
You want everything spelled out, black and white. That is not belief or faith. Blessed are those who have not seen, and yet still believe. It is a hard thing to do, but you want it to be easy. Not the way it works.
Bullshit. At the end of the day the way that you exercise your "blind faith" has material black and white consequences in the real world that discriminate and harm people on the grounds of they don't believe as you do. Have faith in whatever you want, but stop imposing that faith's morals on the rest of us.

Also, still waiting on this:

I actually think I kind of understand your argument better now. Is this a fair assessment?

1. You think that you can suggest that your religious views should be the governing laws of the land because you believe they are what is best for everyone, even if some refuse to see that.

2. You think any direct/indirect "teaching" or "acknowledgement" by an institution that is not in line with Biblical principles creates a "victim" (this is closely related to #1).

3. You think that secular law, whenever possible, should be reflective of your view of an accounting in the afterlife. (again, pretty much #1)

4. All "rights" are granted by God, so distinctions such as "legal," "civil," or "human" don't matter.

5. You left the debate (at least for a bit) becasue you felt that your point of view was being twisted and lampooned with derisive and detracting posts.

All that pretty much accurate?
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mjmjr25 wrote:All sin affects all man.
Two people of the same sex loving each other doesn't affect me at all. It could annoy me if I heard amorous activities through the wall if I lived in a crappy apartment or was in a cheap hotel, but it would be no different if it was a heterosexual couple making noise.
We are so perfectly created...
Just like bananas are a testament to god's creationary wisdom?
You state lusting for children is clearly a sin. Yet lusting for a member of the same sex is not? There are more references to homosexual acts and perversion than pedophilia. So why do you so easily say one is a sin and one is not? Likely, because you find pedophilia abhorrent - that isn't fair though, you just changed the criteria. If it suits your belief system, then you are now willing to accept that is a sin. If it doesn't, then you continue to argue against it?
Pedophilia has been clearly shown to cause mental distress to victims. That is just one reason it can be considered abhorrent for the sake of comparison. Two same sex people that accept their orientation fall in love that are not causing each other distress.
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It seems like Christians think they own the idea of marriage. Marriage is a legal contact so to speak and has been around since long before christianity yet all I hear when it comes to gay marriage is that god gets added in and changes the accepted definition of the word to something that fits how they view the world. Christians are a minority in the world yet they feel that their views (the churches also) should be held to a higher regard then anyone else.

Not talking about anyone here just how I see things.
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I have never understood the disconnect between an Omniscient G-d and Homosexuality? If he created it all...gays are part of that equation.No? And why if it is a choice( its not) do we see Homosexuality in the animal Kingdom? Bonobo monkeys, for one example practice, many homosexual acts. Did G-d get it wrong or has he always expected and allowed for the variations we see in nature? I will say this in defense of most Christians...the charge that they hate gays is shallow and sophomoric. I personally believe they are wrong in their rigid adherence to Dogma, but truly love the people they are calling sinners. The real problem is that the Government should not be involved in marriage in the first place. Then each Church or synagogue or Kingdom Hall or Mosque could create their own rules that respect their own religion, without the government discriminating.
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mjmjr25 wrote:I didn't pick my faith from a hat. There are many religions. There is one true religion. That will be offensive to anyone whom isn't an adherent. I'm sorry to offend, unintended as it is. We are aware and prepared to combat false prophets, no matter the guise.
Yeah but from my point of view, you are the false prophets. Why should the Goverment listen to you and not to me? Because I can use exactly the same the same argument against you.

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Ack wrote:Ok, but then that would mean government still has nothing to do with your definition of marriage, as it is not up to the government to decide your relationship with God.
Depends on the country, of course, but I would agree that this is a generally a good thing.
If that is the case, then is the idea of same-sex civil unions acceptable, as it comes strictly from government and does not necessarily have the same religious significance as a marriage?
Do as they may. I live in a country which a democratically elected government. If this is the will of the people, then so be it. It does not make it acceptable to me, though. It is just tolerated because I accept that fact that I live in a democracy.

I have never understood the disconnect between an Omniscient G-d and Homosexuality? If he created it all...gays are part of that equation.No? And why if it is a choice( its not) do we see Homosexuality in the animal Kingdom? Bonobo monkeys, for one example practice, many homosexual acts.
The issue of sin answers all of this.
Did G-d get it wrong or has he always expected and allowed for the variations we see in nature?
Why did you limit it to two choices? Neither is correct.
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Ok Breetai, so you don't automatically oppose same sex civil unions, but the use of the word "marriage" implies a relationship with God that you do not see a homosexual relationship having, hence why you do not want the term used but don't automatically oppose a state method which would grant same-sex couples the same legal, and potentially economic, status as a religious marriage?
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Ack wrote:Ok Breetai, so you don't automatically oppose same sex civil unions, but the use of the word "marriage" implies a relationship with God that you do not see a homosexual relationship having...
I'd say you are mistaken here. I absolutely believe a homesexual person can have a relationship with God and honestly be called a Christian. Christianity condemns that act, yes, but the person still exists of course! I don't think any loving Christian could say otherwise (not counting those Westboro Baptists, which I have a hard time seeing as Christian anyway).
...hence why you do not want the term used but don't automatically oppose a state method which would grant same-sex couples the same legal, and potentially economic, status as a religious marriage?
Oh, I don't like, and do in fact oppose, the reality of same-sex marriage or whatever the kids these days call it. On the other hand, I do value the freedom I have while living under an apparent democratic government. So, from a political perspective, I accept the reality of same-sex marriage (which is fully legal where I am).

I don't think I ever said I didn't want the term (you mean marriage?) used. I haven't given it much thought, I guess.
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