Problem is for me it's really hit or miss. I only played Oblivion for a few hours before I got really bored of generic random cave #87 and just whatever, had a lot more fun in Morrowind taking over houses and storing them with anything and everything like I owned them. Fallout 3 I just outright hated, but New Vegas on the other hand I actually beat and put over 60 hours in... and there was still so much more to do. New Vegas to me at least had a -little- bit of direction in the beginning so it was easier to get going than say Fallout 3 and Oblivion. The pacing was just better. So I felt comfortable with the game and a lot of my surroundings early on, then just started doing my own thing for awhile. My friends kept annoying me about going to the actual main city because I waited 40 some hours to go there and probably could have stayed away even longer than that.
I remember in Fallout 3 the first city bombards you with like 30 quests at once, but I never felt bombarded at all in New Vegas. I might try and give 3 another shot again someday, but then I just think of playing New Vegas over again... since these kind of games can easily be a different experience every time around.

