Ivo wrote:I don't know why you are skeptic when the girl you showed it to said it was BS (it looks like BS to me, but I'm far from an expert) - if you have reasons to believe she is lying, then why did you seek her opinion in the first place?
If you knew the way we got along over the past decade, you'd understand my urge to show her the list. She's basically a model, and she knows how much it annoys me when she flaunts it when there's no call for it. I figured her being both female and what most consider in the upper league, it would allow for an interesting opinion. But it didn't. She just always goes for the Real Man type, but of course she denies it. She's also always miserable about it.
There is a certain point when you may want to consider what sort of girls you are trying to like. Perhaps the problem lies in them and not in you, and you just need to find a "Nice girl" which WILL appreciate a "nice guy" instead of some "bad girl" (that instead of going to heaven, goes everywhere - perhaps in more than one way) that may very well dislike the "nice guys" and only like the jocks / macho men / "real men" or whatever they want to call it. It is true that many girls that have (what the majority of men consider to be) attractive bodies are messed up (perhaps it is because of all the attention (or whatever))... But inner beauty is what really counts, and it is certainly true that not all attractive girls are "bad".
Yeah well you get to the point where you couldn't get along with a single girl over all these years since like 8th grade, and you stop blaming them and start blaming yourself. The stats begin piling up against you.
After so many failed attempts in my life, I'm thinking the biggest issue has always been that I've never even met a girl that has any real similar interests with me. I'm saying there's no geek girls in Kansas. Interests are extremely important, especially when you're like many of us who have no real crazy stories to tell that are universally entertaining. Girls don't wanna hear about your wicked Ganondorf Smash Bros skills. And without that, I got nothin'. For example, a girl might start jabbering on and on about Johnny Depp, Vin Deisel, Oprah, this week's pop artist, female celebrity embarrassments, whatever, and I become clearly annoyed and will usually just say "Ok this is boring". That's where my brutal honesty comes in. A horndog would just go along with it though, pretending to be someone they are not; anything to get in those pants. But if I don't care what you have to say, I'm not going to be interested in you physically.
And it's certainly not about looks. Or sex. If I wanted sex, there's a lot of trash in this state that rarely rejects anyone. I really get annoyed when people tell me that I'd be more successful if I just scored some cheap lays first. I don't think I can sink that low.
Teach me.
