RyaNtheSlayA wrote:Feeling like you're being left behind by your friends is one of the worst feelings.
I guess it's inevitable - I'm a good two-three years behind most of them in education and "career" (if you can call waiting tables a career) and most of them were/are at far more prestigious schools with much better opportunities than those I have access to. I can't afford to eat out at the places they like to go. Can't do the things they do because I don't have the time. I feel left out of conversations because I don't necessarily have the basis of knowledge they do on a lot of subjects.
I don't know why they bother including me still.
I just needed to vent a bit about that.
Are these high school friends? Of the people I went to high school with, I still talk to one of them, and that's only rarely. At this point the closest and best friendships I have were formed during my college years or are related to those college friends in some way.
And situations change through the years. The "left behind" feeling ain't a nice one, but I understand it too having done grad school and being unemployed for a couple of years afterward while many of my pals found careers in their fields. Hell, they were getting married and considering kids while my relationship was falling apart. I'm still not married, nor have kids, nor own a house like many of them do. But eventually you get past those hurdles and realize that it doesn't matter as much as you thought it did, and life is far messier than you were led to believe when you were young. You're still an adult, and your journey is your own no matter what.