College Advice?

[BoneSnapDeez]

I don't find myself shallow or a jerk for not wanting to date a woman who wore anything larger than a size 2.

I like petite women. My wife eats like a horse (and a lot more than I do) but is a size 0.

Sir mix a lot and I have nothing in common.

Haha that's fine. It just struck me as really restrictive. I mean size 2 or less is what? 5% of the population?

I've never had a really specific "body preference." I used to work with a gal who had 100 pounds on me and was fine as hellz. She tried to hit this actually, but I was already with my wife (tho not married yet) at that point.

[AppleQueso]

Forlorn what the fuck are you even talking about.

"None of y'all get it"

get what exactly?

[Jmustang1968]

Forlorn what the fuck are you even talking about.

"None of y'all get it"

get what exactly?

It of course!

[AppleQueso]

Forlorn what the fuck are you even talking about.

"None of y'all get it"

get what exactly?

It of course!

WHAT

IS

IT?

it's it

[dsheinem]

I think he was making a reference to the Farmers Only commerical.

Nope.

What is there not to get?

You just don't get it.

I think I would get it more than you realized actually.

Truth. I met John back when he was just 18 and and he was an ugly-ass motherfucker with both poor social skills and the audacity of being both a Texan (ugh) and an Aggie (double ugh). But (thanks to spending some time with a tall, dark, handsome, kick-ass humble podcast co-host) he's blossomed into a charisma-generating force of nature and has since gone on to live a fulfilling life of regular threesomes with supermodels, trike-meet weekends full of crazy shenanigans, a stable of unplayed RPGs at his disposal, and a respectable family life.

[Forlorn Drifter]

What IT is that you didn't have develop these things, or at least had one going from the beginning, or had something outside of what we've been discussing to help you along. You can't fix ugly, so I'm screwed there, and despite what people say, I don't think you can do anything about charisma. You can't. I look at my Dad, who never developed it. Ever. Never had more than 5 or 6 friends around, and only managed to fall into relationships because he was good looking. That was it. He never asked a girl out, they came to him. Every single one. I look at my buddy Chance- not the best looking guy around, but pretty good overall. Charismatic as hell, gets along with everybody. I look at a friend I used to have, Aidan. He had money, and its worked well for him.

I have none of these things, so there's no point.

[Jmustang1968]

I think I would get it more than you realized actually.

Truth. I met John back when he was just 18 and and he was an ugly-ass motherfucker with both poor social skills and the audacity of being both a Texan (ugh) and an Aggie (double ugh). But (thanks to spending some time with a tall, dark, handsome, kick-ass humble podcast co-host) he's blossomed into a charisma-generating force of nature and has since gone on to live a fulfilling life of regular threesomes with supermodels, trike-meet weekends full of crazy shenanigans, a stable of unplayed RPGs at his disposal, and a respectable family life.

Some of these are actually true.

[AppleQueso]

I'm gonna take a wild guess Forlorn and say that your incessant self loathing is more of a turn off than any amount of 'ugliness' or 'lack of charisma' you think you have (and I seriously doubt you're all that ugly.)

But I mean, you said you don't want a relationship anyways, so why do you give a shit?

[AppleQueso]

also fuck normative beauty standards

[Forlorn Drifter]

People don't hear the self loathing, because they don't talk to me in the first place. I imagine it has to do with the fact that I'm ugly. I can't think of any other reason people would ignore me on the rare occasion I do start a conversation.