Worst Break Up

[Hatta]

The complete and absolute lack of protection for men on those issues is staggering, and shows how sexist our society is in the end.

Well said! Cheers to Inazuma for sticking up for his reproductive rights.

[gtmtnbiker]

I can't say I would have reacted the same way but that honestly doesn't sound so bad.

Having a child should be something both parents want. If either of them is selfish enough to force the decision of raising a child onto their partner then theres no reason to stay together with that person. It can only be a sign of bad things to come.

Inazuma was a jerk. Don't put your thing in if you can't accept the risk of having a kid. Birth control is not 100% effective. As for the morning after pill, some people choose to not abort and you have to respect their belief. You cannot force the other person to choose abortion.

Inazuma has the right to end the relationship but the manner he did it in was poor. If the woman wished to carry the baby to term,, he would have been on the hook for child support.

Again, if you can't accept the risk of having a kid, then don't do the act.

[Erik_Twice]

Again, if you can't accept the risk of having a kid, then don't do the act.

Complete bullshit.

In other words, you think that lying to your couple and tricking them so as to get yourself pregnant is not bad?

And you dare to call anyone a dick?

As for the morning after pill, some people choose to not abort and you have to respect their belief.

But you don't have to respect the fact that they don't want a baby? Or respect the fact that forcing someone to get you pregnant is not nice?

[brunoafh]

I don't understand how some don't see a problem or want to blame Inazuma for her ex's crazy actions. Saying that he could have somehow prevented it is bullshit

It's not bullshit, don't be silly. It's easy to avoid having a child. It's not like his dick accidentally fell out of his pants and potentially impregnated her. Every time you have sex you're running the "risk" of creating a child, regardless of the contraceptives you use. If you refuse to accept to the consequences should you end up creating life, then you're a worthless coward in my eyes. To avoid getting someone pregnant, I'd suggest the following:

Method 1) Don't have sex.

Method 2) Have a vasectomy (which he did after, so he's all good now) or a tubectomy.

[Niode]

I can't say I would have reacted the same way but that honestly doesn't sound so bad.

Having a child should be something both parents want. If either of them is selfish enough to force the decision of raising a child onto their partner then theres no reason to stay together with that person. It can only be a sign of bad things to come.

Inazuma was a jerk. Don't put your thing in if you can't accept the risk of having a kid. Birth control is not 100% effective. As for the morning after pill, some people choose to not abort and you have to respect their belief. You cannot force the other person to choose abortion.

Inazuma has the right to end the relationship but the manner he did it in was poor. If the woman wished to carry the baby to term,, he would have been on the hook for child support.

Again, if you can't accept the risk of having a kid, then don't do the act.

I'm sorry but that's bullshit. Somebody going behind their partners back to secure a child just isn't cricket. I'm not surprised he ran a fucking mile. I know I would. Having a child should be a joint decision.

Abstaining from sex on the risk of having a child is absurd, as long as you are responsible and take the appropriate safety precautions then I see no reason why two consenting adults shouldn't have sex. These days I'm more worried about catching an STD than I am of having a child. One is way more likely than the other.

[Hatta]

Don't put your thing in if you can't accept the risk of having a kid.

Consent to sex is not consent to having a kid. It sounds like this woman had sex on false pretenses, and was trying to force him into a life long commitment. She deserved everything she got.

You cannot force the other person to choose abortion.

But the other person can force you to choose fatherhood? How's that for equality?

[Niode]

You cannot force the other person to choose abortion.

But the other person can force you to choose fatherhood? How's that for equality?

Quoted for mother fucking truth. Fuck everything about that.

[brunoafh]

But the other person can force you to choose fatherhood? How's that for equality?

This doesn't make any sense (in this case). Inazuma willingly had sex with his girlfriend, and then the condom broke (she may have not even gotten pregnant anyway). What about that is deceitful trickery on the female's part?

[puke_face]

Dear Racketboy Members,

just. . . please don't respond to inazuma's post and lets continue the discussion from before that point.

Sincerely,
The decent topic that will get locked otherwise

Hit the nail on the head, man.

Remember folks, the topic is:

Worst Break Up

[Hatta]

Every time you have sex you're running the "risk" of creating a child, regardless of the contraceptives you use. If you refuse to accept to the consequences should you end up creating life, then you're a worthless coward in my eyes. To avoid getting someone pregnant, I'd suggest the following:

Method 1) Don't have sex.

Method 2) Have a vasectomy (which he did after, so he's all good now) or a tubectomy.

Every time you drive a car, you're running the "risk" of being impaled by your steering column, regardless of the safety features of your vehicle. If you refuse to accept the consequences should you end up in an accident, you're a worthless coward in my eyes. To avoid being killed in a car crash, I'd suggest the following:

Method 1) Don't drive

Method 2) Take an airplane


Do you see now how devoid of merit your argument is? We have medical science for a reason. Use it.