No worries man. It's his life to live after all.jp1 wrote: In short, I hope you are willing to cut him a break on that one.
That said, it is your family and what the hell do I know about the circumstances? So, please take my 2 cents as nothing more than 2 cents. I just wanted to add an outside perspective that may not be considered with lots of feelings involved. If I'm wrong, I'm wrong, and I apologize.
But the way my wife found about the cancer being back was the worst way possible. She's worried that it must be pretty bad if he's hiding it. I've told her she needs to call her Father and let him know that she knows, but I haven't pestered or pressed her on it. She's a grown woman and can make her own decisions.
Forlorn, Dude. You obviously have internet access, so you have no excuse for not attending school functions. Go to your school's homepage, and click on the calendar of events. While in college your apartment should only be used for sleeping/passing out, eating, and studying. And you say you aren't familiar with the campus?
Well, park somewhere and spend a day getting familiar with it as it sounds you don't have anything better to do. Learn where which dorms are located where. Know where student health is. Check out the library and fitness center. See which cafeterias or food courts have the best food. Grab some flyers and see what local bands will be playing soon, and where. And on most campuses there is always an outdoor game being played. Ask "ya got room for one more?", and MEET some people. And another easy way to meet people it to simply ask them what their major is. You might share some of the same classes.
