Worst Break Up

[skere26]

This is by no means the worst, but I find it ironic that it happened today to me:

Today a girl told me that it's not in her best interest to remain friends with me anymore.

This was in response to me asking her: "Do you wanna grab a beer and some wings after work?"

[Breetai]

I dated a girl for many years and we were pretty certain we were going to get married. But when I moved away for work she went absolutely crazy, so we broke up but got back together three years later. She was on edge then and broke up with me via facebook. So I found out the following morning, called her to ask why, no response. I emailed her and she said that she was just changing her profile from dating me to married to Genghis Khan and that I shouldnt care. She then told me that she was going to tell everyone we knew personal things about me, and went off and caused a rift between my friends that is still there many years later. She told many people things she shouldnt have, and apparently told several of them boldfaced lies. The best five stories I have heard are:
- I was homosexual and only friends with them because I wanted to have sex with them.
- I was a crossdresser who she use to help with outfits.
- I use to beat her.
- I use to bring other women in to judge her against and for threeways (we were not having sex).
- That I broke up with her because she wasnt good enough and that I betrayed her trust

Maybe she has some sort of a mental issue?

[Betamax001]

- I use to beat her.

Sorry if this is in bad taste buuuttt....http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5utc5TOPNbo

I don't have any crazy stories or even a worst break up. One needs to hook up before breaking up

[CFFJR]

This is by no means the worst, but I find it ironic that it happened today to me:

Today a girl told me that it's not in her best interest to remain friends with me anymore.

This was in response to me asking her: "Do you wanna grab a beer and some wings after work?"

What on earth?

That's a really odd thing for her to say to your question.

Any more details on this, if I may ask?

[Inazuma]

Wow. You better watch your back, guy. I don't believe in karma, but I do believe you reap what you sow. And one of those important life lessons led to a vasectomy?

You reap what you sow is right. She wanted to have a baby even though I obviously did not want one. So she ended up getting thrown out. Karma is a bitch and so was she.

But like I said, I learned a lot from that. I won't allow myself to get in that kind of situation again. It was partially my fault for being so foolish.

[Rurouni_Fencer]

Remember guys. Don't stick your dick in crazy.

For the girls. Don't let crazy stick his dick in you.

If only you could play that on here in Yoda's voice - Awesome!

And in response to Inazuma - I realize the controversy around plenty of his posts, and the uproar he brings. But I think he did the right thing - and I am a huge family person who can't wait to start a family of my own with my future wife!
Inazuma - My best friend did pretty much exactly the same as you (minus the pill and kicking out of the house deal.) And while I've always objected my friend's actions in the past, I agree with instances like this! As MrEco already said:

"Having a child should be something both parents want. If either of them is selfish enough to force the decision of raising a child onto their partner then theres no reason to stay together with that person. It can only be a sign of bad things to come."

A child should be raised in a healthy, loving environment - not born through deceit and eventual resentment.

*Sorry, mods, if I brought back up a controversial post - I just wanted to voice my opinion on a familiar topic.*

[Sideroller]

I think it's funny a lot of people break up on Valentines day. A couple of my friends have done the same, it's kind of weird.

My first girlfriend was living in Germany at the time we hooked up. We were crazy for each other and then when she finally got back to the states over the summer we broke up.

I was really young and stupid at the time and took it pretty bad (she was my first girlfriend), so I held a bit of grudge against her since she hooked up with a guy back in Germany AFTER she came back Since then we've made up though and are friends.

Long distance relationships aren't worth the hassle people.

[Zeonik Freak]

This is by no means the worst, but I find it ironic that it happened today to me:

Today a girl told me that it's not in her best interest to remain friends with me anymore.

This was in response to me asking her: "Do you wanna grab a beer and some wings after work?"

Thats a long version of "NO" if i ever saw one.

I dont get why women wanna do things more complicated than men. Im not saying all of them, but when they give you answers they wanna make it sound like something outta a soap opera, when all they have to do is tell (me) us straight up "no i dont want to do that or go here, piss off". That is all they need to say to me.

Men are not complicated, I am as binary in thinking as maybe the next guy. It pretty much goes (scenario= option a / option b), thats it.

[Erik_Twice]

The "you reap what you sow" part is bullshit. Unless you also think that all those victims of domestic abuse are at fault themselves.

Inazuma did the right thing. Did you have the pill around? Because had she not taken it, not only you would need to have an unwatend baby but the law would force you to pay to the mother an awful lot of money each month.

I don't understand how some don't see a problem or want to blame Inazuma for her ex's crazy actions. Saying that he could have somehow prevented it is bullshit (65% divorce rates anyone? Ex-boyfriends anyone? Let's blame Hashiriya too!) and even if he could , that doesn't make him less of a victim.

The alternative is to never trust anyone and live a pathetic, sad life. No friends either, they can backstab you. In fact, they already do sometimes.



Talking about crazy girls and on a similar topic. I met a very nice, fun to hang with girl and after many "dates" we decided we liked each other and started making out. Okey, it's fine by me. The part where she grabbed my joystick in the park not so much but ,oh well, nobody was watching us.

Later on we went for a walk and she started to say weird things. How we were not dating, that I forced her, that she would never do that to her boyfriend (wut?) and basically calling me a rapist.

I have never been so scared in all my life. I could perfectly imagine her going to the police station and framing me of rape just to cover the fact that she cheated. And what would she lose? My life would be compeltely destroyed forever and my house would be raided by angry the angry "feminists" we have in this country, where no man can ever be innocent, no matter what evidence says.



The complete and absolute lack of protection for men on those issues is staggering, and shows how sexist our society is in the end.


@Zeonik Freak

It's simply how society works.

[o.pwuaioc]

- I use to beat her.

Sorry if this is in bad taste buuuttt....http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5utc5TOPNbo

I don't have any crazy stories or even a worst break up. One needs to hook up before breaking up

Best worst movie ever. We found his apartment here in SF!!