Xeogred wrote:it's basically code for "I don't really care" or it's not truly in their heart, it's just a very lazy excuse and clearly not a priority in their life.
I think that is an absolutely correct deciphering.
Xeogred wrote:people also just get very boring with age and for some reason go out of their way to prevent themselves from having fun. I've definitely noticed it with some friends over the years. Anyone else?
I'm going on 37 now, and I've seen this in plenty of people my own age. Basically they just give up on any other hobby other than devouring TV. I think it's because TV takes the
least amount of effort to enjoy versus say reading, creating art, or even playing video games for example. Also TV has an incredible amount of great content now when you get into what's available from digital sources. And that's fine if someone wants to watch TV for 20 hours a week, as long as they don't then say they have no time for gaming but wish they did.
Jmustang1968 wrote:A big reason why I have more free time than most is that I dont sleep as much. I generally sleep 3-4 hours a night on weekdays and 6-8 on weekends. You can throw in an occassional nap or 2 in there.
That's my trick too, sleep deprivation. I'm playing games when I should be sleeping, if you know, I were to actually get 8 hours of sleep a night as I'm "supposed to". I do pretty good on 5-6 hours of sleep, but by Friday I'm dragging and quite cranky. Then I recharge during the weekend by actually get 8 hours of sleep Friday and Saturday nights. There's no way in hell I could get by on 3-4 hours of sleep a night though. I would be a cranky monster and probably ruin my marriage.

There's studies that have shown some people can legit get by on 2-4 hours of sleep a night, it's actually genetic.