Jmustang1968 wrote:
I wouldn't enjoy doing that, feels like it is working the system. I only return things if they are defective/incomplete. Returning a movie you don't like (I understsnd it was your dad) seems a bit ridiculous.
He also has returned CD's he didn't like. I agree it is ridiculous, but he has that "I'm not spending my hard earned money on something I am not fully satisfied" mind set. A lot of people with his background are the same way, and his age also plays a factor.
I'm the same way, but not to his extreme. I have received three free irons from BB&B. Finally the last time (knocks on wood) the freebie was their "top shelf" iron. The last freebie iron dripped a copper like substance on a fairly expensive white dress shirt, and I was angry as a chick-fil-a fiend on a Sunday. I composed myself, went to BBB with the ruined shirt, and calmly said "Man, I can't afford to have to throw another shirt away because of a faulty iron".
Or something close to that.
He understood, gave me a gift card and said "Pick out any iron you want". If that is working the system, then yes, I worked it.
Similar situation with the shoes. I loved the look of them, but after a run I knew they weren't the best running shoes for me. Casual shoes yes, active shoes, no. I told the lady at Kohl's "I really love the way these shoes look, but I can't see myself running in them every morning." And *boom*, full refund and a free pair of seventy dollar shoes.
The only time I can think of where I genuinely got mad at someone for a service was a cab driver in Chicago. I had a business dinner set with the owner and CEO of Notions Marketing, had called the cab company a week in advance to set a pick up and drop off time, and the guy was nearly an hour late. Not only that, he didn't like the fact I pointed out he was late. "Maybe this is your first time getting a Taxi" he said to me. The fare was over $40...I didn't pay a cent. I was furious, but kept it together and told him to "Sue me. Check with your boss for my name".
Luckily Ray Jay (VP is Ray, Jay was the CEO) were enjoying adult beverages so they didn't mind the wait, but I felt so unprofessional for not showing up on time. Plus my wife was with me and she looked so stunning I doubt they checked their watches.
Lesson learned: Never expect a cab to arrive on time, call a limo instead. I've never had a limo arrive late. And if you don't travel much, a limo isn't what you think. It's not a stretch limo, it's usually a Lincoln Continental.