Are you overly generous?

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I try not to lend things anymore. If it's something I have that I don't need that someone else could use then i'll just give it to them. Otherwise if it has some use in any foreseeable future, I don't part with it.

In my experience, most of what is lent will never get returned. And if it does, it's rarely when you actually want/need it back.

ninjainspandex wrote:I always wondered am I supposed to tip for takeout? I never do and now I'm wondering if thats wrong. I eat takeout alot from that place and probably would eat there considerably less if I was expected to tip.
I used to tip for takeout. After the majority of people gave me an odd look for doing it, I pretty much stopped. If I don't see a tip jar on the counter I don't even consider tipping for takeout anymore.
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SpoonyBard wrote: I used to tip for takeout. After the majority of people gave me an odd look for doing it, I pretty much stopped. If I don't see a tip jar on the counter I don't even consider tipping for takeout anymore.
Leaving money on a counter can look weird. If I get like $16 worth of food I just hand them a $20 and casually say "keep the change."
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ninjainspandex wrote:I always wondered am I supposed to tip for takeout? I never do and now I'm wondering if thats wrong. I eat takeout alot from that place and probably would eat there considerably less if I was expected to tip.
It depends on the restaurant, but you should probably tip 10% for take out. The server who rings up your order will probably have to pay tip-out to the kitchen for the order regardless of whether it is dine-in or take-out. Likewise, the server will probably have to pay taxes as if he or she had received a 10% tip. Finally, a 10% tip usually does not add much more than a few dollars to a carry out order; so, it should not be too burdensome.
BoneSnapDeez wrote:Leaving money on a counter can look weird. If I get like $16 worth of food I just hand them a $20 and casually say "keep the change."
BoneSnapDeez ordering takeout = 8)
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BoneSnapDeez wrote:
SpoonyBard wrote: I used to tip for takeout. After the majority of people gave me an odd look for doing it, I pretty much stopped. If I don't see a tip jar on the counter I don't even consider tipping for takeout anymore.
Leaving money on a counter can look weird. If I get like $16 worth of food I just hand them a $20 and casually say "keep the change."
yeah, that's what i do. most of the take-out places around me have some sort of tip jar so i throw my change in there usually.

there is NO reason to not tip someone for services rendered, ever, unless they smack you in the face and call your wife a bitch or something. when in doubt, if you can tip, you should. i tip at buffets, too.
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aaron wrote: there is NO reason to not tip someone for services rendered, ever, unless they smack you in the face and call your wife a bitch or something.
:lol:

If that happened, it would be really, really awkward when they brought you the check...
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Jmustang1968 wrote:
Seriously?

Mcdonalds workers make minimum wage at least. Servers are assumed to make tips and are paid around $2.50 an hour. If you dont tip they dont make shit
Common misconception
They establishment is required by law to pay the server the standard minimum wage. There is a set "tipped minimum wage" though; if with that and tips you make over the federal standard minimum then the company doesn't have to shell out anything more. But if as a server you don't the establishment has to make up that difference.

http://www.dol.gov/elaws/faq/esa/flsa/002.htm
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I have always been against lending things. I will do it for close friends and family on occasion, but I will also be on them like a hound and make it understood I want it back exactly when I want it back. So with lending, no, I am not generous at all. I am more likely to just give something away. I don't exactly see it as stingy or anything either though, I think it's pretty reasonable to be protective of your belongings.

I'm not a super generous tipper unless the person really went out of their way. Usually I have in mind to do something around 10% of the total. Not really sure if that's even a good amount or not, but I almost never go out to eat (2 or 3 times a year max) so this barely applies to me.
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brunoafh wrote:I'm not a super generous tipper unless the person really went out of their way. Usually I have in mind to do something around 10% of the total. Not really sure if that's even a good amount or not, but I almost never go out to eat (2 or 3 times a year max) so this barely applies to me.
10% is pretty low to me, but i usually tip in the 20-25% range. the percentage is skewed if it's a lower bill (like $10 or so at a bar) or if the server is someone i know.
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KDub wrote:
Jmustang1968 wrote:
Seriously?

Mcdonalds workers make minimum wage at least. Servers are assumed to make tips and are paid around $2.50 an hour. If you dont tip they dont make shit
Common misconception
They establishment is required by law to pay the server the standard minimum wage. There is a set "tipped minimum wage" though; if with that and tips you make over the federal standard minimum then the company doesn't have to shell out anything more. But if as a server you don't the establishment has to make up that difference.

http://www.dol.gov/elaws/faq/esa/flsa/002.htm
It isn't a misconception. When I was a server I was paid $2.15 an hour. So if some guy stiffed me on my tip, I didn't make shit for that table.

But if you didn't make tips then they would pay you more, but then you wouldn't have the 'assumed' to be making tips caveat I stated in my post.
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I get an automatic 10% discount at a local restaurant just for being THE MAN (okay, I had the kids in school too)..... But what ends up happening every time is that I leave a MASSIVE tip to compensate for the guilt I feel about getting a discount. Maybe that was their plan on along...........

As far as lending goes, I don't lend shit. Still burned about the stolen (complete) copy of EarthBound that I "lent" to a "friend" 13 years ago.
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