'bout 200 miles. With a country border. I mean, Canada, but still. We're a little over 1 year and going strong, just the last month I thought there was something up because we went from talking every couple days to silence, because she's been dealing with nonsense at home, trying to find a new place to live and such. Silly roommate issues. Glad I got along well with mine when I still had them.Luke wrote:How long of a distance?KalessinDB wrote:Finally heard from the girlfriend. Holy crap, long distance sucks.
Not to tout, but in college I dated a model who lived 250 miles away. We lasted almost two years, but it sucked mega balls. It was meet up, do it, goodbye. And when we were apart, we were both miserable. We talked a lot. A lot. Sent cards, hand written love letters, but not being able to be together stunk skunk.
But that was my situation. Yours could be totally different and work out.
BUT! I will say I really wish we had an "open relationship" as I turned down some *ahem* opportunities. And I was in college, so I was tied down when I shouldn't have been. Had a sweet little number even tell me "I'll be sitting on your cute dimples by the end of the night" and was all "welllllll....I have a girlfriend....." so yeah, lots of missed fun.
Sounds rude, but you might want to think it over.
For me, open relationship wouldn't really be an option. I'm very much a one-woman guy, always have been. My longing isn't necessarily for the sex (though it's amazing sex) when we're apart, it's for the company and fun and such. Great girl.
Of course, if I WAS younger still, then I might be thinking the same way you were while in college
