My $0.02 on the dating discussion: I've never tried to get a girlfriend, and I never ended up "catching" something without trying. All's I've ever gotten is people looking at me funny for not attempting to have significant other.
I think that for most guys, unless you're really good looking you'll have to make an effort to get a girl. Most girls would rather that you go after them, as opposed to the other way around. And that's why I don't have one: I can't stand the asking someone out, the flirting, the innuendo, and of course the polite lying. Just not for me.


