Curlypaul wrote:I'd rather people just got along and were more constructive with one another.
A lot of people would prefer that, but as we all know it will never happen.
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You have not been bullied here. You are victimising yourself and that helps no one. People have heavily criticized you and got annoyed with you but bullied? No, not at all. I find the dynamic you are trying to establish here is harmful and goes nowhere.
Really, dude, the problem is that you do not care. Of course we call you out on your grammar. It's terrible. It makes it hard to discuss gaming when you can't read other people's posts. You can run your posts through a spellchecker . You have been told to do so but you still don't do it. I refuse to accept that you can't help it as it's pure lazyness.
Saying that we are jealous because we call you out on writting "grammer" is childish. If you really want people to treat you well, start by treating everyone with the respect they deserve and use a spellchecker. If I can write properly in a language that isn't my own so can you.
You do not care. You think everyone is out for you when you have clear tendencies that make everyone call you out. Telling people who have been here for YEARS to stop posting because you are now here is a sad mixture of naïveté, entitlement and ineptitude.
Really, if you care so less about us why should we care about your whiny threads? Go to another forum if we are so bad. I know I'm not exactly the nicest guy around but dude, you are wrong. You do not respect us by writting poorly. You do not respect us by acting offended when you create Nintendo threads in the Sega forum. You do not respect anyone when you go to the moderators as if you were a child. Really dude,chill.
If you can't understand why people get angry when you call your girlfriend, or whoever at all, to write for you and tell people to "shut up" you really need to stop posting for ten minutes and think about it. Think about it! You are a doing a lot of wrong things and many are not posting in this thread because they think you are not worth it, that you will never learn to care. Hell, I'm looking like a dick here but you really need to get over yourself and understand that you are being rude all the time.
Dude, seriously, what the hell do you want to achieve calling us (because I'm certainly in the "bully" camp) "jealous", "miserable" or whatever shit you come up. You achieve nothing. If I'm a dick or dsheim is a dick and everyone is a dick why do you spend so much time whining about it? Go to a better forum! But insulting regulars of the forum won't get you anywhere.
Because you are insulting people. Don't try to cry and say you don't you did it in this very post. How do you expect people not to be annoyed? Your entire post can be summed up in this line:
"I JUST WANTED TO BE FRIENDS BUT THERE ARE A LOT OF ASSHOLES IN THE FORUMS, DON'T YOU AGREE?"
Only with worse grammar. Seriously, there's no excuse not to use a spellchecker. How do you expect to be respected when you do not care enough about the forums to write properly?
IT'S A MESSAGE BOARD, ALL WE CAN SEE OF YOU IS WHAT YOU WRITE, IF YOU WRITE POORLY IT WILL REFLECT POORLY ON YOU.
Saying "Don't read this if it annoys you" is no excuse. It only makes us think you are so full of yourself that you think others should bow down and read your terrible posts instead of treating us as equals. If you know it's annoying, PLEEEEEASEEE GET A SPELLCHECKER.
Again, I could simply ignore this post and post here and there. It would be easier. But damn, dude, everyone knows this already and they are actively ignoring your posts because they think you are a lost case. And I don't quite do so I wrote a HUGE-ASS POST to see if you can change a bit.
I repeat: It would be easier for me to stand still and see how you leave. Easier, makes me look better and gets rid of the terrible grammar once and for all.
And this is not bullying or calling you stupid. I think you are lazy and rude because you don't use a spellchecker. But you are and it's your fault and your fault only. You can't expect people to lie to you and say how nice you are when you aren't mate.
Hope that helps.
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I actually had no issue with you until this pity seeking post. For those who call you out on grammar, you had the same or more responding warmly to your posts and being generally supportive of your opinions. You seem to be one of those who has to focus on the negative and magnify that aspect. And get out of here with the cyber bullying. This isn't anywhere near 'cyber bullying'.
Get a little tougher skin, maybe soak in some of the feedback, and adjust to the forum. This post here made you seem more sensitive than a 13 year old middle school girl or my 4 year old nephew who throws a fit and screams if we tease him a little. If anything, this post will only ostracize you further and serves no positive purpose.
This is rather .... pathetic to put it nicely. If you would stop doing stupids things like making pity threads and use a spellcheck nobody would harass you. That is the truth.
