Key-Glyph wrote:I'm surprised there isn't as much cross-over between video game players and board game players as you're suggesting.
I should make clear that I'm not suggesting that video gamers and board game players shouldn't cross paths, but simply that they very often don't. There is a lot of crossover, however, and I think there's room for a lot more if only more people were given the chance. Despite a very healthy amount of releases for board games (thanks to he low cost of entry), compared to the video game industry it's very much a niche market. The average video gamer probably hasn't heard of much beyond Settlers of Catan, if they've even noticed it on the shelf among Clue and Monopoly and Apples to Apples. As for why more board gamers don't game... it's hard to say. Could be the social aspect lacking in so many video games. All I know is that I think more could enjoy both than do, especially among video gamers.
I very much agree with your latter point. I generally can't stand online games (erm, outside of a certain MMO I played for eight years), as I simply prefer to play with friends. Aside from Dreamcast in my late teens, every console I played growing up only offered offline multiplayer, which is how I prefer it today. Even discounting all the idiots a person can find in an online game, it's harder yet to find anyone with a personality. Even with friends, it's just a different atmosphere when they're in-person. Since multiple players are required by default for most board games, it's a lot easier to find people to play with than it is with video games. For that same reason, though, the opportunity to play board games at all is a lot more difficult.
I think the important thing for any potential board gamer is just to try more stuff. Some board games require very strategic thinking, while others require fast hands, and others precise dexterity. Settlers or Puerto Rico may not be for everyone, but perhaps a card game like Dominion or Thunderstone might be, or something more abstract like Blokus or The Climbers, or something fast like JAB: Realtime Boxing, or something ridiculous like Cas$ 'n Gun$, or a dexterity game like PitchCar. There's a lot out there, so hopefully there's no stigma attached to people that have passed on board games entirely.